I totally agree. John and I have really been blessed to get our feet wet in marriage ministry. We know that with the Holy Spirit all things that seem to be "hopeless" become "hopeful". It is our prayer that many will pick up your book The Third Cord Secret and invite the Holy Spirit into their marriage. I confess I have done it both ways! The first time I was married I was not even a believer! After getting saved during my divorce process and seven years of growing up in God, I can now say God has blessed John and I with a Spirit filled marriage. It might work without it, but it won't be easy. The Holy Spirit binds us together in Christ and he brings love, joy, peace and unity into the married life. Your book will explain to so many what has been lacking and will rebirth their marriage. God Bless you both for your efforts!